“The righteous man leads a blameless life;
blessed are his children after him.”
(Proverbs 20:7)
This Sunday is Father’s Day. I sometimes wonder if we celebrate Father’s Day just to be politically correct – after all, we have a Mother’s Day; so we need to balance it with a day for dads, right? Think about it. We give mother’s flowers in church on Mother’s Day; we give dads a pat-on-the back on Father’s Day. We take mom out for dinner on Mother’s Day so she doesn’t have to cook; we have backyard barbecues on Father’s Day and ask dad to do the grilling. What kind of balance is this?
But dads, don’t ever underestimate your significance! You are truly the #1 influence in your children’s lives. Every child wants dad’s approval, acceptance, and affirmation. Every child longs to hear their father say, “Well done! I’m proud of you!” Why? Because you’re their dad! You’re their hero!
I ran across this simple, but profound article in my files this week entitled, “The Strength of a Man.” Dads, think about these truths…
The strength of a man isn’t seen in the width of his shoulders.
It’s in the width of his arms that encircle his children.
The strength of a man isn’t in the deep tone of his voice.
It’s in the gentle words he whispers.
The strength of a man isn’t in how respected he is at work.
It’s in how respected he is at home.
The strength of a man isn’t in how hard he hits.
It’s in how tender he touches.
The strength of a man isn’t in the hair on his chest.
It’s in his heart that lies within his chest.
The strength of a man isn’t in how many women he’s loved.
It’s in being true to one woman.
The strength of a man isn’t in the weight he can lift.
It’s in the burdens he can carry.
Dads, you have a very special place in your children’s hearts and lives. Never underestimate your impact on your sons and daughters.
Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for being my loving Father.
May I imitate your example of fatherhood in my life.
May I be a man of integrity, compassion, courage, truth, and grace.
And, may I be a godly example for my children to imitate!
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
